I love going to parties at the weekend and especially at Club Elysion because they are the best! The owners build the most awsome party sets and always pick really cool themes. This weekend I believe the theme is dreams and PJs – and what makes the parties special is that the VIPs do dress up and go to great lenghts with theme-appropriate styling. Last weekend the theme was Route 66 and alternative hippies/bikers/sixties style. I opted for a pair of cutoff denims and a fringe top and a huge afro – so yep alternative/hippie was perfect for me while my date Mr. Coeur Nuit wore his leathers, engineer boots and a bandana – more or less his regular look anyway so perfect for him.
Here I’m barefoot at home before tp’ing to Elysion channeling my inner Woodstock goddess. The expression “groovy” comes to mind….
So I get a little drunk and a little sentimental at sad songs….
And at the after party we continued to dance at our own private beach only lit by floating water lanterns… and we skinnydipped in the cool ocean…. so romantic….
….before getting a bit philosophical – or maybe just very VERY drunk – ….and ending up falling asleep on the pier naked until the sun and birdsong woke me up on Sunday morning. A perfect weekend…<3
If you are curious about what I’ve been up to I can tell you I have been doing a BDSM movie “HOTEL SPANK” by Coeur Noir – who is also nominated as Sexiest director for his “Cirque Nuit”
During shooting I also posed for a series of photographs inspired by the movie and I thought I’d post some of the pics here so you get an idea what to expect (as if you didn’t already know…). Now spank this link – to watch the whole movie! Happy Horny Monday!
Just thought I’d post some pics from last weeks Halloween party at Club Elysion – so many awsome costumes! I really love when people puts some serious effort into dressing up when it is a costume party. And the Elysion crew are brillinat at this – that’s why theres never any shortage of costume balls there. I love that! For someone who spends majority of her working hours naked or dressed in little more than heels and body oil a costume party is a great way to relax and have fun. So feast your eyes on these photos and grab inspiration for the comming weekend – do check out Elysion’s website because every weekend there it’s a costume ball (remember it’s a members only club, but you can purchase membership at the entry gates). There’s also at least 3 days of Halloween fun at Twisted Orchid BDSM Club – with “Who’s afraid of the big bad wolf ” with DJ Maric today starting at 10 am SLT, and then a naughty event after with DJ Babygirl Diavolo spinning the tunes and as usual a stage full of hot sexy girls taking it all off for you. Tomorrow it’s time for Twisted Orchid’s Grotesque Burlesque and Insane Asylum on Sunday! If this isn’t enough spooky stuff for you, I can tell you that from now on the TO’s Carrie’s Lingerie event has been changed to a Fetish Ball as a regular event on Sundays starting at 10 am SLT. I do hope you will come down this weekend and get me naked! ❤
What REALLY goes on in a strip club is fascinating and it spans from the sexy and sometimes kinky to the downright hilarious and seriously aggravating. To write this book would be professional harakiri but sometimes I amuse myself with thoughts of what a juicy read it could be. Ok it’s not gonna happen, not from me anyway. But a few general observations can’t hurt, can it? I know y’all will find this funny if you have ever been in a strip club in RL or SL – they are fascinating sociological laboratories. So sit back and enjoy – here’s a closer look at what archetypes of the demimonde who you’re most likely to run into if you go to a strip club in Second Life:
The Goodtime Gals/Guys. They are the ones who dance because they love the social interaction, and regards stripping in a club as a chance hang out, flirt and have fun, and tips is just the icing on the cake. For good time gals/guys club life is more about having a blast than anything else. And these dancers probably makes the best company seen from the guests point of view, as they are always bubbly, lively and game for a laugh. I know some amazing goodtime gals/guys and count them as my best friends. They are also wonderfully drama-free. Some of the highest tipped dancers I know are good time gals/guys. They are genuinely interested in talking to people and enjoy themselves at events and parties – put people at ease – make the club feel friendly and they make you smile – great quality.
Then you have The Professional: They are up on that stage to earn a living and are prepared to work hard – WITHIN their working hours. While there they are professional charmers who usually do not date outside the club and will politely turn down any offers of meeting up when they are not working. Some people appear to have issues with this type of dancer and many a time have I heard a guest say “oh so you are only nice to me if i give you money?” – which reveals a total lack of understanding of the dynamics of a stripper/VIP relation. A lot of really fabulously sexy girls/guys are pros, and just because they are working doesn’t mean they aren’t genuine and friendly. They just do not give in to crushes and would never message a patron outside the club boundaries. Treat a professional well and she/he will treat you like royalty, give you the time of your life, and you will most likely have a friendship built on understanding and mutual respect. A good professional will be your confidante, make no other demands other than respect and a tip for her time.
The 3rd group of dancers are The Cherry Pickers: Probably no need to go to great lenghts to describe who they are. Cherry Pickers are the dancers who only come to the club to dance if they sense there’s action = money to be made. They will stay away at slow times and quite shamelessly crash any shift there is – IF they get a whiff of a high roller in the house. With little or no regard for their fellow dancers who faithfully work their shifts even when it’s quiet in the club the cherry pickers pop up to grab some cash and then leave again soon as the tipper leaves. Sadly enough customers don’t know or don’t care. But the rest of the club’s staff does. So shame on you, cherry pickers and the people who tip you – it’s a bit like stealing from hard working dancers.
Then – there is the Patrons/guests
They basically come in several categories, i have named 5: the regulars, the high rollers, the cheats, the moralists and people looking for a possible girl/boyfriend. Not counting noobs obviously.
The regulars: Most regulars are nice and easy, they come to hang out, chat amiably and tip if they feel like it or if they can. If they cannot – it’s ok. We understand. I think flirting and great conversation is nice as well if it doesn’t come with a hidden agenda of scoring for free. I have known people who’s never tipped for as long as I have known them but they are nice to talk to and a laugh to be around so I’m totally good with it. Other regulars always tip well but we would love them anyway – a regular guest comes in because he or she likes the club and our company so what’s not to like about them? Dancers needs to treat regulars well, they are the salt of the clubs earth. I have some regulars that I like so much I wouldn’t care if they owed me money – they are just that special. So don’t say dancers are only after money. We are a lot like human beings – just with better bodies.
The high rollers – they are – as the label says – people who tip hard. Usually they expect flirting back and get it. I mean who wouldn’t flirt with someone who totally get who and what you are? High rollers are sexy. Period. Enough said.
The cheats: These type of guests are out to either 1: score a dancer for free or 2: insult a the dancer if she doesn’t take his/her bait.
Insults can be engaging a dancer in private conversations and expect the dancers sole attention while not tipping a penny and then accusing the dancer of ignoring you if she/he doesn’t reply. Insults can be sitting in the front row (the erection section) and not tipping or talking at all. And then you have the worst ones who like to talk down to dancers because they think they have the upper hand just because they can put money in a dancer’s tip jar. People who use money as a weapon to make dancers feel bad – go away already – we don’t need your crappy cash. Stuff it up your ass – hopefully bleached – to quote my favourite DJ Penny Parkin. Just remember – we don’t HAVE to behave just because you are a guest. Then you have the patrons who think they are soooo good looking they have to boast loudly in public chat: “ooh i NEVER pay for it – I don’t have to!” I’m sorry, if you don’t like strippers wtf are you doing in a strip club? There’s free sex places where you most days can pick up a truly sex starved drifter for the night no matter how you look. And as for looks, keep in mind that noone – I repeat NOONE – is so good looking they should get away with crap attitudes. Let’s face it – in SL we can ALL be great looking and own a prancing AKEYO overrider, it’s just a matter of animations, skins and sliders. So come on, behave.
And then there’s the lovely little moralists: They come into a club with a title saying things like “DON’T even try” – “VERY married” or “Totally taken by ONE” – and stuff like that. Don’t be an idiot folks, we dancers can read and we check profiles. If you are partnered and obviously not out to score any private time we won’t harass you – but we WILL flirt. It’s our job – get it?
The ones looking for a girl/boyfriend: I’m not saying it’s impossible to chat up a stripper and fall in love, even live happily ever after. But usually strippers dance for tips. So why flirt with strippers if you just want company and possibly someone to date? There’s plenty of regular dance clubs where you can meet people that way and nicely so. A stripper/escort is a professional entertainer/courtesan, we’re not anymore easy than any other person you’re likely to meet in a club, plus – disrespecting what dancers do probably means you should not be in a strip club in the first place.
Oh and yea – love to hear your comments on this one!
Ready for a new week full of kinky fun? No better place than Twisted Orchid BDSM Club – the club’s been re-vamped and looks sensational – there’s even a new saucy display room below the club – a window in the floor where you can watch us change outfits. As you can see our program is packed with more kinky events than any other club in SL – wether you like leather & lace, ponygirls, cosplay, cyber domination,masters, mistresses, latex & rubber, sexy lingerie or 50 shades of kink – you want it, TO has it. We have even started doing live performances on stage now so stay tuned if you want to see some sexy live action. And – if you’d like to meet me I dance as often as i can so just pop in randomly – I perform regularely every Sunday with DJ Penny’s “Sinful Sunday” – event sponsored by the fabulous Carrie’s Lingerie. So if you want to be sure to meet yours truly that’s when you are guaranteed to see me. Come watch me drop my panties here *winks*
Above: Me dancing in the exclusive slavesilks set “Aradia” in gold from Carrie’s Lingerie. Below: the exquisite “Sloth” outfit in blue from Carrie’s – part of her 7 Deadly Sins-collection. Check out more pictures of gorgeous Carrie’s Lingerie here at my FLICKR.
Many have been waiting for this and well finally it’s here: The BDSM Magazine Black Sheets – had their releaseparty last Sunday so I am a bit slow but I have felt exceedingly lazy this last week, sorry.
Black Sheets is an art and literary magazine featuring a great variety of articles and high quality photograps. In the new issue you can meet some of the fiercest Dommes in SL, see a gorgeous trubute to some of the most notorious fetish photographers and read features about BDSM Lifestyle, kinky fashion and interesting residents. Oh – and don’t forget to read my piece on Twisted Orchid – the best BDSM club in SL – yay – with interviews with both Goddess Kailani Ling and the lovely Jennifer Melody. Could it be better? I think NOT.
And – if you have time today at 10AM SLT – I will be on stage at Twisted Orchids “Latex Bizarre Circus”-event – so be there!
And while you drool and count the hours…here’s a photo of the lovely Kristayn and myself on the club’s stage. You can see more of the lovely Kristayn and some of the other awsome Twisted Dancers in the new edition of Black Sheets Magazine so go grab a copy now and indulge with your Saturday morning coffee!